Next Best You

This section brings together a collection of powerful ideas, reflections, and frameworks on leadership and personal development—all sourced from different voices across LinkedIn. These aren’t just thoughts from one perspective, but a diverse set of insights shared by professionals, thought leaders, and mentors who consistently inspire growth.

Whether you’re managing a team, navigating your career, or simply aiming to be better every day, you’ll find practical wisdom and food for thought right here.

How to Disagree

Great CEOs don’t avoid conflict. They master it. (Here’s how.) The average CEO spends 76%of their time communicating. 61% in meetings. 15% on calls. How they handle disagreements in those momentsshapes their culture more than any mission statement,ever could. If you shut down ideas with phrases like: “That won’t work.””You’re not getting it.””We have to…

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When Leadership Becomes the Constraint: 11 Self-Checks That Matter

Most leadership challenges are not talent problems.They are awareness problems.Here are eleven signals worth examining and how effective leaders respond:1. Problems always belong to “the team”When issues repeat, ownership sits higher than we think.Leaders who grow people coach first and blame last. 2. Your schedule leaves no oxygenA diary packed with meetings often signals control,…

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Give Better Feedback

6 feedback frameworks every leader needs to master. (Most people only know one) Giving feedback is one of the hardest parts of leadership. Say too little and nothing changes. Say too much and you crush someone’s spirit. The secret? Having the right framework for the right moment. Use these 6 powerful approaches to transformhow you…

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9 Signs of a Healthy Company Culture

Good people quit toxic work cultures, not jobs. 9 signs of a healthy culture: (Hint: It’s not about the perks. It’s about the people.) 1. Employees feel heard and appreciated.↳ They know their contributions are valued. 2. People are treated with trust and respect.↳ Regardless of their role or level. 3. Everyone feels safe to…

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Leadership Skills

After coaching 100s of CEOs,I’ve seen one indisputable truth: The best leaders put their people first. Because when you take care of your people,they take care of the business. Master these 10 skills, and you’ll be the leadereveryone wants to follow: 1. Trust Teams↳ Set expectations, then step aside↳ Handoff responsibility and don’t take it…

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8 Rules for a Great Meeting

Stop having meetings about meetings. Start having meetings with a mission. 🚀 We’ve all been there: a calendar full of back-to-back calls, yet by 5 PM, it feels like nothing actually got done. Bad meetings aren’t just boring—they are expensive and drain team morale. If you want to transform your meeting culture from “time-wasting” to…

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Reset

I made a huge mistake in my productivity routine.I filled every hour.And left zero space to reset. It felt like I was getting things done.But I was just staying busy.And slowly burning out. No matter how many systems I used…How many hours I worked…How many tools I tried… I just stayed stuck in survival mode.…

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Master Your Calendar

The most productive people I’ve worked with don’t have superhuman focus. They’ve stopped letting others fill their calendar.And started designing it on purpose. Here are 8 ways to master your calendar: 1️⃣ Eliminate the non-essential↳ Most requests feel urgent but aren’t important↳ Asking “what if I don’t do this” shows what’s essential 2️⃣ Monitor your…

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Good people don’t fail in good systems.

I watched a director spiral last year.Call him “Marcus.” Three people on his team underperforming.Missing deadlines. Withdrawn in meetings.Quality slipping. His first instinct?Performance improvement plans.More check-ins.”Accountability conversations.” He was trying to fix the flowers. But when we looked closer: Competing priorities from above.No clarity on what actually mattered.Meetings that could’ve been emails.And a culture where…

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Control Your 5 M’s

In life, business, and leadership, real control is not about controlling others.It is about controlling yourself. Psychology teaches us that small daily behaviors, when repeated consistently, shape our identity, reputation, and results. The 5 M’s are simple, but mastering them creates powerful inner discipline. 1. Your MouthWords are not just communication tools; they are emotional…

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12 Sentences Emotionally Intelligent People Use Under Pressure

Anyone can seem calm in easy situations.But real emotional intelligence shows up under stress. When others get defensive, reactive or passive-aggressive—High-EQ people stay grounded and intentional. Here are 12 phrases emotionally intelligent people use when it matters most: “I need a minute to think this through.”↳ Pause before speaking. It protects relationships. “Help me understand…

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Emotional Intelligence

It’s a way of living.A way of living built on habits. Being emotionally intelligent isn’t about being perfect.It’s about showing up, growing, and leading with balance. Emotions are powerful tools.They can connect or divide, lift or limit. Because:- They’re spontaneous.- They require awareness.- They are not controlled easily. And sometimes, they demand a choice….A choice…

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10 Secrets to Become Mentally Unbreakable

Mental strength is not about being emotionless or tough all the time.It is about clarity, responsibility, resilience, and self-control.Here is a deep yet simple explanation of the 10 principles that help build an unbreakable mindset: 1️⃣ Don’t fear being aloneSolitude is not weakness. It is a space where self-awareness grows.When you are comfortable alone, you…

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When Feedback Fails

If your feedback isn’t working, Try my system: If feedback isn’t landing,it’s not a people problem. It’s a process problem. Feedback usually fails because: 🔸 It’s too vague🔸 No one follows up🔸 It’s criticism, not clarity🔸 It’s in the heat of the moment The fix? It’s a cycle—not a one-time comment. Start with my 3…

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9 mindsets I see in every successful person

They’re not born with them. They develop them through daily habits. And you can too. Here’s how: 1. Embrace curiosity.↳ Ask questions. Invite new perspectives.↳ Learning isn’t a phase. It’s a lifelong pursuit. 2. Focus on solutions.↳ When problems arise, take a breath.↳ Then ask: What can I do to fix this? 3. Reframe failure.↳…

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Work Life Balance

Most people chase balance— Few learn how to adjust it: We’re taught that work-lifebalance is even and steady. Work on one side.Life on the other. But real life isn’t that neat. You’re always shifting:work, family, health, friends. Nothing stays equal for long. One area always needs more time— And that’s okay. The problem isn’t being…

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The R.E.S.O.L.V.E Framework for Conflict Management

Most conflict at work isn’t about the issue. It’s about how we handle it. – Unspoken tension.- Misread emails.- Meetings that go sideways. Left unchecked, conflict spreads fast. It damages trust, slows progress, and kills morale. But it doesn’t have to. Here’s how to lead through conflict with clarity: R – Recognize the ConflictGet clear…

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10 Leadership Mistakes That Lead To Burnout

Hard work doesn’t burn people out. Poor leadership does. The solution isn’t meditation apps or productivity hacks. It’s fixing the leadership habits destroying your people: 1. Micromanaging:↳ Constant oversight drains energy and destroys trust 2. Constant urgency:↳ Making everything urgent creates chronic stress 3. Lack of appreciation:↳ Hard work without rewards is a top reason…

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Accountability That Works

You can’t hold people accountable— For what was never made clear: If no one agrees on what to be accountable for,things will fall apart and systems will fail. Real accountability isn’t assumed,it’s built through action. And it depends on 3 things: ✅ Consistent follow-through✅ Ownership without blame✅ Clear expectations If you lead people, these arenon-negotiable:…

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9 Leadership Styles

Think you’re a “Coaching Leader”?That might be the exact thing holding your team back.Most managers proudly say: “I follow the coaching style.”But real leaders?They adapt—because one style can’t solve every problem.When you shift your style, you improve:✅ Team performance✅ Engagement✅ Ownership✅ ResultsHere’s a BD team–focused cheat sheet on when each leadership style works—and how to…

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The Mind Map

The reason you feel behind? You’re overloaded: Feeling stuck isn’t failure—it’s your mind sayingsomething needsto shift. When youknow what is drainingyou and what is fueling you,your momentum comes back fast. That’s what the MIND Map is for—a clear way to see why you stalled. And how to get moving again, try this: 🟨 M —…

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7 Styles of Thinking

92% of people get stuck because they rely on just one or two thinking styles. And so they keep running into the same walls… over and over again. I used to be like that too.My weapon of choice was always analysis: charts, data, processes.It worked — until it didn’t. One day I hit a problem…

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Types of Intelligence

Schools tested one intelligence— But real life runs on many: Most people spend years feeling “not smartenough” only because they weremeasured by the wrong ruler. In real work, real teams, and real life—very different strengths rise to the top. Here are nine forms of intelligencethat shape real success: 🟡 IQ — Problem solverBreaks problems down…

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Master The Art of Negotiation

How to Get What You Deserve: An unfortunate truth in life:Most people are not getting what they deserve. The solution?Negotiating what you deserve. People who learn how to negotiate well: ↳ Gain greater respect and recognition↳ Get higher-paid opportunities↳ Progress faster in life Start improving your negotiation skills today.Steal this cheatsheet now! Harvards 6 Guidelines…

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Helpful vs Hurtful

Honesty isn’t the problem— How you deliver it is: Most people don’t mean to be hurtful. But the wrong delivery canturn truth into damage. Before you speak, pauseand ask yourself one thing: Is this helpful or is this hurtful? Here’s the T.R.U.E. test to guide you: 🟪 Truthful→ Honest, not harsh 🟨 Respectful→ Care about…

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Avoid Burnout

Burnout is not your fault. But it’s your responsibility to fix it. Ignoring this almost cost me my career. 🚨 I wore burnout like a badge of honor.Until it wore me out beyond repair. Dr. Dalton-Smith’s work offers us a way out.↳ Rest beyond sleep↳ Recharge your mind↳ Refuel your purpose Here are the 7…

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Scaling the Leadership Mountain

Leadership isn’t about reaching the top… It’s about surviving the climb. Each level has challenges and rewards. But, each is required to get to the next level Here’s your guide to mastering each stage: 👇 🚀 Entry-Level Management: Building the Foundations ↳ Effective Communication: Develop clear, concise messaging to establish trust↳ Time Management: Balance project…

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Why Introverts Make Powerful Leaders

The leadership myth nobody talks about: Most people assume all great leaders are extroverts. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. Quiet leaders aren’t just effective.They’re often exceptional. Yet their potential is still clouded by persistent myths that I’ve witnessed throughout my career. Here are three myths that need to be shattered: ❌ 1.…

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Conflict Playbook

Conflict isn’t the problem— Avoiding it is: Most people fear conflictbecause they think it breaks trust. But handled right, it builds it… 1️⃣ Prevent it before it starts• Pause before hard talks.• Ask, “Is this a good time?”• Write what you need to say in one clear sentence. 2️⃣ Speak clearly, not sharply• Use: “When…

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The Truth About Emotions

You’re not “too emotional”— You’re carrying two realities at once: Most people try to control what they feel. But emotions were never meant to be caged. They’re not flaws to fix— They’re data. They’re how your body and brainspeak truth before words do. Look closer and you’ll find your mostpowerful traits aren’t pure—they’re layered. For…

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Master Time Management

Procrastination isn’t the enemy. Poor systems are. 18 game-changing productivity habits I learned in the ER. As a doctor turned entrepreneur, I discovered that:↳ Procrastination isn’t a weakness.↳ It’s just a sign that your systems need an upgrade. Steal my pressure-tested toolkit: 1) Follow the Domino Effect↳ Order your tasks so that one paves way…

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Path to Self Belief

Self-belief isn’t something you feel— It’s something you build: And most people build it backwards. They wait until they “feel ready.” They chase confidence like it’s a finish line. But belief doesn’t show up first. Proof does. Here’s what the path really looks like: 🔴 Doubt Zone• Feels safe, but keeps you stuck• You overthink,…

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Powerful ChatGPT Prompts

Never underestimate the power of good prompts. Here are 5 frameworks to copy and paste 🧵 ↓ 1 ‐ R‐A‐I‐N ☑ Act as a (ROLE)☑ State the (AIM)☑ Use the provided (INPUT)☑ Hit the (NUMERIC TARGET)☑ In this (FORMAT) Example:☑ ROLE: Senior product designer☑ AIM: Redesign our fitness‐app onboarding to cut time‐to‐first‐workout by 30 %☑…

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The 7 Traits of Doers

Most people wait for clarity— Doers create it by moving: Most people wait for perfect. Doers build— Even when it’s messy. Here’s how they think: 1️⃣ Knows what to build🔹 Don’t guess — get clear.🔸 Write one sentence: who it’s for and for what.🔹 Talk to 5 people, build the simple version first. 2️⃣ Gets…

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The Danger of Assumptions

The danger isn’t what happened— It’s what we assumed about it: Here’s how the ladderof inference traps us: 1️⃣ Fact → Someone misses a meeting.2️⃣ Detail → They didn’t answer my email.3️⃣ Meaning → They must not care.4️⃣ Assumption → They ignored me on purpose.5️⃣ Conclusion → They’re unreliable.6️⃣ Belief → They’re not committed.7️⃣ Action…

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The No Pitch Method

Stop trying to convince— Start trying to connect: You don’t need to pitchharder to sell more— But to understand howpeople actually buy. Here’s the No-Pitch Method: Know your buyer• Now buyers: move fast.• Later buyers: stay close, stay helpful.• Never buyers: let them go. What makes people buy:1️⃣ Start with their pain2️⃣ Promise one win3️⃣…

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The Power of Quiet People

“Quiet people have the loudest minds.” – S Hawking Too often, we mistake silence for weakness. But quiet team members are often thestrongest performers in the room. They’re just not shouting about it. If you’re a CEO, founder, or team lead…this is your cheat sheet. Save it. Share it. Lead better with it. Quiet people…

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How to Build Executive-Level Credibility

If you can’t speak to your value, someone else will. And they’ll get it wrong. If you’re ready to break through to Executive, you need to be able to answer the question “Why are you ready for the next level?” You’re answering this question every time you enter a room. (whether you know it or…

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1-1 Meetings

Random chats aren’t leadership— This is what real 1:1s look like: 1-on-1s shouldn’t be random check-ins— They should be a system thatbuilds clarity, trust, and growth. Here’s how to make them work: Daily🟡 Write your top 3 tasks for tomorrow🟡 Note 1 blocker or question you have🟡 Track your energy level and one win Weekly🟠…

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Passion

People aren’t replaceable parts.Yet too many companies stilltreat them like they are. They rush to fill roles-and forget what truly drives results:heart.ownership.pride. You can hire for skills.You can’t hire for care. Because what makes people irreplaceableisn’t in their job description-it’s in their spirit. What real appreciation looks like 👇 1. See the humanNot just what…

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Courage

Some time ago, a friend asked me “I don’t see you online as much, is everything ok?” It was true, I was spending less time on social media and on LinkedIn. Fortunately everything was ok. Better than ok, I decided to take my kids to the bus in the morning myself, rather than having someone…

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The Ultimate Guide To Master Effective Communication

The smartest people don’t get the best job offers.⁣.⁣⁣Those who know how to communicate do:⁣⁣Here is the Ultimate Guide to Master Effective Communication:⁣⁣⁣👥 The 7 C’s Pyramid:⁣⁣⁣1. Clear⁣↳ Use simple language everyone can understand⁣⁣⁣2. Concise⁣⁣↳ Get to the point quickly without beating around the bush⁣
⁣⁣3. Concrete⁣⁣↳ Back up your points with tangible facts and figures⁣
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12 Roman Productivity Hacks You Should Be Doing

The Romans Hacked Productivity 2000 Years Ago Modern “hacks” make you weaker. 12 Roman Productivity Hacks You Should Be Doing The Romans built roads, aqueducts, and empires — but their real productivity secret was discipline. These 12 habits still outperform any modern app. 1. Start Your Day at First Light→ Marcus Aurelius wrote about resisting…

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6 Thinking Hats

If your meetings feel like chaos disguised as collaboration… Try this. One of the simplest leadership tools I know is the 6 Thinking Hats. It transforms messy discussions into sharp decisions by giving structure to how people think — not just what they say. Here’s how it works: 🟦 Blue Hat — Lead the process.…

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Breathe

Most of what feels personal— Isn’t personal at all: Is it how someone’s voice lands? Maybe praise going to someone else? Or not getting included at all? Whatever might be, they can all hit hard— But your reaction decides  what happens next. Use the BREATHE model to reset: 🟥 Balance before reacting 🟨 Reflect instead…

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