Next Best You

This section brings together a collection of powerful ideas, reflections, and frameworks on leadership and personal development—all sourced from different voices across LinkedIn. These aren’t just thoughts from one perspective, but a diverse set of insights shared by professionals, thought leaders, and mentors who consistently inspire growth.

Whether you’re managing a team, navigating your career, or simply aiming to be better every day, you’ll find practical wisdom and food for thought right here.

Stress Leadership Types

Your stress response reveals your leadership type. Here’s how to decode yours👇🏼 Most people think stress kills leadership potential. Wrong. It reveals it. 3 stress leadership types: 1) ⚡ The Reactor↳ First instinct: Fix everything immediately↳ Strength: Quick decision-making under pressure↳ Growth edge: Learn to pause before responding↳ In action: “I’ll handle this” becomes your…

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Top 65 Books You Need

65 of the best books on planet earth— Condensed into one list: If you’re building anything—a career, a company, or a better life, These are the books that show upagain and again in the librariesof leaders, builders, creators,and decision-makers. They don’t just share good ideas. They change how you think, lead, and operate. Because real…

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Phrases That Break Client Trust

In every client conversation, your words are doing one of two things: Building trust or breaking it. And it doesn’t take much to tip the scale the wrong way. A recycled line.A rushed phrase.A question that makes them pull back. We’ve all said something with good intent… That landed the wrong way. But here’s the…

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12 Habits That Kill Growth

12 Brutal CEO Habits That Kill Growth(This applies to you in your role too!) 1. Your Calendar Is Destroying Your Clarity→ Back-to-back meetings leave no space to lead.You’re reacting, not thinking. 2. You “Delegate,” But Don’t Let Go→ If it still runs through you, it’s not really off your plate.Don’t micromanage. Empower, then step back.…

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Master the Art of Saying No

That word? “No.” Most of us struggle to say it. We worry about letting people down.About missing opportunities.About not being a “team player.” But after decades in leadership I’ve learned this brutal fact: Your ability to say “no” determines your success as a CEO. Let me share the exact phrases that will help yousay “no”…

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Protect Your Peace

Most people aren’t attacking you— Here’s how to keep your peace: Someone criticizes. Someone rejects you. Someone disagrees. Your brain says:“This is about me.” But it’s usually not. It’s about their pressure, their story, their fears. Not your worth. So what do you do instead? Here’s how to protect your peacewhen everything feels personal: 🔴…

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How to Introduce Yourself

If you blow that intro, the whole room moves on. In business and networking, most people fumble this one shot. 🚫 They ramble.🚫 They oversell.🚫 They sound like a broken record. Don’t be like most people. If you can master your intro, you’ll unlock doors most people wouldn’t dream of. Here’s how to do it…

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8 Thinking Roles

They’re shaped by diverse minds,each contributing something essential. – Some spark ideas.- Some build structure.- Some turn vision into action.- And others make sure no one gets left behind. True collaboration isn’t just about talking.It’s about how we think together. 📌 These 8 thinking roles reflect the core ways people contribute with their minds: (whether…

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Leadership User Manual

Most leaders don’t lack effort— They lack structure, try this: Great leadership isn’t reactive— It runs on rhythm. The best leaders don’t just respond. They set a repeatable pace. Here’s how to lead withclarity instead of chaos: Daily ➝ Control the chaos🟨 Give feedback before confusion starts🟨 Stay calm, even when it’s messy🟨 Fix issues…

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How to Assess, Guide, Mentor Your Team

This leadership stat really hit me: 71% of employees who believe that their boss can identify theirabilities are more engaged & enthusiastic at work. When we think of employee development, we typically think: ❇︎ Training❇︎ Certifications❇︎ Providing feedback❇︎ Even performance reviews But we’ve already started in the wrong place. ❌ You have to pick the destination…

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Master Public Speaking

Statistically, we’d rather die than do public speaking. Overcome that fear with these 9 strategies: It’s like Jerry Seinfeld said,”At a funeral, most people would rather be in the casket than doing the eulogy.” But ultimately, public speaking is a more important skill than you realise. It shows up in:🗣️ The Monday team meeting🗣️ The…

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How to Handle Difficult Conversations

The conversation you’re avoiding— Is the one you need the most: Tough talks aren’t the problem. Avoiding them is. When you skip hard conversations,you create more conflict. But let’s be honest— The 3 hardest conversations at work? 🔵Performance feedback🔵Personal conflict🔵Big changes And yet— These are the conversationsthat shape your culture most. Here’s what people get…

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8 Phrases That Ruin Promotion Talks

Promotions don’t just go to top performers. They go to the best communicators too ⬇️ You’re not being overlooked. You might just be saying the wrong things inpromotion conversations. Statements like:“I deserve a promotion.”“I’ve been here longer than others.”“I’ll leave if I’m not promoted.” These might feel bold but they often backfire.Why? Because they create…

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5 Proven Innovation Frameworks

5 proven innovation frameworks that turn ideas into revenue. (Here’s exactly when to use each one.) Most innovation efforts fail. Not because the ideas are bad. But because leaders use the wrong approach for their situation. Think of frameworks like power tools. A drill won’t help you cut wood. A saw won’t help you drive…

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Confidence

Confidence isn’t built in your comfort zone. It’s earned one scary step at a time. The people who land those $200k+ roles aren’t always the most qualified. They’re the ones living in the learning zone. Here’s what each zone actually teaches you: 1. Comfort Zone→ You feel safe, but nothing grows here→ Your skills stay…

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The 4 Types of Thinking Leaders Need to Practice

Great leaders don’t just think better—they think differently, depending on the challenge at hand. If you want to solve the right problems—and solve them in unexpected, high-impact ways— you need to master four distinct types of thinking, according to a recent article in Harvard Business Review. ✴️ Expert ThinkingWhen speed and precision matter most. Use…

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OKRs That Work

You’re not missing effort— You’re missing structure: Most teams set goals. But many fail to reach them. Goals without a clear path are just guesswork. OKRs turn guesswork into action. Without OKRs, teams struggle with: 🔴 Missed deadlines.🔴 No clear ownership.🔴 Unclear expectations.🔴 Too many objectives at once.🔴 Goals forgotten until it’s too late.🔴 Tracking…

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Career Advice

12 pieces of career advice that changed my life…(they don’t teach you in school): I get a lot of messages asking for career advice. This is my attempt to synthesize a few years of responses into short, actionable lessons. Behind each is a longer (probably painful) story. But I’ll spare you those details (for now!).…

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The Three Word Tension Defuser

Your defensive responses are killing conversations. This 3-word phrase flips the script instantly: It happens faster than you think. One minute you’re having a nice conversation. The next, someone’s defensive and the whole thing goes sideways. Here’s what most people do:❌ Jump in with solutions, take sides, or try to “fix” the emotions. Here’s what…

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Culture of Growth

Want better results? Start building your people: People don’t grow in roles. They grow in cultures. And when that culture is missing— Top talent walks.Motivation drops.Potential goes quiet. Growth isn’t a “nice to have.” It’s the blueprint for: • Better leadership• Stronger retention• Higher performance• Deeper engagement To build a culture of growth: ✅Empower with…

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The CALM Framework

Leadership has one non-negotiable skill. (The ashram taught me this.) ❌ It’s not charisma❌ Not strategy❌ Not vision It’s staying calm when everything falls apart. I’ve coached thousands of leaders, and the truth: When chaos hits, your team doesn’t watch your plan.They watch your composure. The best leaders use the C.A.L.M. Framework: C – Coach…

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12 Things That Require Zero Talent

I used to think high performers had some secret talent. Now I know it’s the simple things. Anyone can do these. No degree or title required. Just choices you make every day. 12 things that require zero talent: 1. Getting shit done2. Having integrity3. Keeping your word4. Showing up on time5. Bringing solutions, not problems6.…

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Teamwork

Many teams focus on the wrong things.They optimize for speed instead of strength.Output over alignment. Pace over cohesion. But this acronym says it all: T – TrustNot built in meetings.↳ Earned in the moments between them. E – EmpathyNot a soft skill.↳ It’s how we understand what each person needs. A – AccountabilityNot about blame.↳…

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Why Growth-Minded Leaders Win in the Long Run

(While Fixed Thinkers Stay Stuck) A recent Harvard Business Review study shows that teams led by growth-minded leaders perform 25% better and are twice as engaged. Translation? A fixed mindset doesn’t just block progress, it repels it. ❌ Whereas a growth mindset? It compounds. 💪 It transforms: 👇🏼↳ Pressure into performance↳ Unknowns into innovation↳ Setbacks…

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Spot Issues Fast

Most performance problems don’t start big— They start invisible: Performance issues rarely go away on their own. They get buried.They grow in silence.They spread to everyone else. The longer you wait –The harder it is to recover. ⚠️Watch for early warning signs: • Declining quality• Low engagement• Missed deadlines• Frequent absences 🚫Unaddressed issues lead to:…

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The Hit Refresh Leadership Mindset

Satya Nadella didn’t just lead Microsoft. He reimagined what leadership could be: When he became CEO, he didn’t start with a strategy doc. He started with a cultural reset:1. From “know-it-all” to “learn-it-all”2. From internal battles to customer obsession3. From protecting the past to inventing the future What’s his playbook? 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀1. Create Clarity2. Generate…

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Stop the Blame Game

Here’s what nobody tells you about accountability: The harder you push, the less they deliver. I’ve watched CEOs destroy their executive teams this way: 🔥 Public callouts in meetings🔥 Micromanaging every decision🔥 Threats disguised as “motivation”🔥 Fear-based deadline pressure Result: Your best leaders become corporate zombies.They show up. They comply. They stop caring. The expensive…

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7 Steps to Design Your Dream Life

Take these steps: “Luxury is feeling unrushed. It is designing a life that allows you to do what you want with high leverage, with many options, all while feeling unrushed.” – Tim Ferriss The power of lifestyle design: • Intentional action• Unlocking your time• Finding what you enjoy Step 1: Build a Habit of Reflection…

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Empathy

These Stats Will Shock You: In business, we often focus on improving innovation, employee retention, and productivity by seeking solutions elsewhere. According to the 2023 Ernst & Young LLP survey, mutual empathy between leaders and employees leads to an increase in: -> Efficiency (88%)-> Creativity (87%)-> Job satisfaction (87%)-> Idea sharing (86%)-> Innovation (85%)-> Revenue…

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9 Oprah’s Principles for hiring the perfect team

Oprah Winfrey’s hiring principles offer powerful guidance for identifying: ➡ passion➡ integrity➡ collaboration Here are 9 of her Principles for hiring a perfect team: 1. Hire for Heart and Character↳ Look for honesty, kindness, and a strong sense of integrity.Ask: “Tell me a time when you did the right thing, even when it was hard?”…

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12 Phrases To Ban

12 silent credibility-killers hiding in your vocabulary.(How many do you use?) If “sales” makes you uncomfortable, you’re not alone. Most client-facing professionals never received formal sales training. And honestly? That’s okay. You don’t need to become a “salesperson” to build strong business relationships. But here’s what I’ve noticed after training thousands of professionals. We all…

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Managing Your Manager

Most managers won’t tell you this— But they wish you’d do it: They want fewer surprises. Fewer loose ends. Less guessing what you need. And more help carrying the weight. The truth? Managing your manager is a skill— And most people never learn it. They wait.They assume.They hope things just work out. But the ones…

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Dangerous Employees

The most valuable employees aren’t waiting for training. They’re creating their own edge. And they’re already two steps ahead. They’re the ones quietly: → Upskilling in AI after hours→ Learning leadership through podcasts→ Preparing for what’s next while others stand still Here’s why they’ll transform your company (and why you need to watch them closely):…

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9 Powerful Ways to Open a Presentation

The First 10 Seconds Can Make or Break Your Presentation If you don’t hook your audience immediately, you risk losing them. The best speakers don’t just start talking—they command attention from the first sentence. Here are 9 powerful ways to open a presentation and captivate your audience: — 1. Lead with a Shocking Statistic➝ “Did…

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Elon Musk’s 6 Rules of Productivity

Most people waste time pretending to be productive.Elon Musk doesn’t have that luxury. He runs 6 companies.Most can’t handle one. So how does he do it? A leaked internal email revealed the 6 ruthless rules he lives by to maximize productivity. Save this. Live by it.Your calendar will thank you. 1/ Avoid Large Meetings↳ Big…

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Circle of Control

‼️ Nearly 47% of Americans are constantly stressed – often about things they can’t even control. So check your circles👇 🔵 CIRCLE OF CONTROL⤷ You act and something changes. This is your zone of power. 🔵 CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE⤷ You can shape outcomes, but can’t force them. Nudge. Suggest. Model. 🔵 CIRCLE OF CONCERN⤷ No amount…

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10 Ways to be Kind to Yourself

We’re praised for pushing through.But rarely taught how to be gentle with ourselves. That’s not strength. That’s survival mode.And it comes at a cost. When you:→ are tired but keep going→ are hurting but show up smiling→ give to everyone but forget yourself Self-kindness isn’t soft.It’s how you stay whole. 🌱 10 Ways to Be…

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9 Old Rules About Change

People hate change.You’ve heard it. You’ve said it. It’s wrong. The truth? People hate confusion.They hate feeling shut out.They hate being told they’ve changed. But change itself?People want it.They just want it to make sense. The best transformation leaders already know this: The old rules of change are broken. The ones in training decks.The ones…

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Prioritizing Your Tasks

Effective prioritization boosts productivity and ensures urgent tasks get immediate attention. Boost your productivity by organizing tasks with the Eisenhower Matrix. The four quadrants of the Eisenhower Matrix:1. Do:➟ Purpose: For tasks that are both urgent and important. ➟ Criteria for Inclusion:- Must be done now.- Has clear consequences if not completed.- Affects long-term goals.…

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Make Feedback Work

Every word you say— Is either building or breaking: Most feedback doesn’t help. It hurts. It’s vague.It’s rushed.It’s forgotten. And teams are left with:🔴 Confusion🔴 Stagnation🔴 Resentment We think we gave them clarity—But they walk away unsure. We think we sparked progress—But we just shut them down. The truth? Feedback only works when it’s built…

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How To Set Priorities

Every CEO I know struggles with the same paradox. The more successful you become, the more everything feels urgent. Hiring and training.Board meetings.Customer fires.Team crises.Investor updates.Product launches.Strategic initiatives. All screaming for attention. All “top priority.” The best don’t rely on gut instinct when the pressure hits. They use frameworks. Not because frameworks are magic. But…

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The Pyramid of Self-Care

How to make self-care a part of your life Here’s how to use the Pyramid of Self-Care: 1. Basic Self-Care This is about taking care of your essential needs. It’s the foundation for feeling good and staying healthy. For example: → Brushing your teeth → Getting enough sleep → Taking a shower (or a hot-cold…

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10 Feedback Techniques From Harvard

69% of employees want more feedback. But only 23% of leaders provide it consistently. Here’s what Harvard discovered:Your “feedback sandwich” is hurting growth. Why?• It dilutes positive recognition.• It weakens constructive feedback.• It creates anxiety (everyone knows it’s coming). The research is clear:Employees receiving direct feedback are 3x more engaged. So, how do you give…

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How to Fix your Reputation

The #1 reason people get overlooked at work? Their reputation doesn’t match their potential. Early in my career, I was shy.I had ideas, but I rarely spoke up. I assumed my work would speak for itself.It didn’t. I wasn’t seen as strategic or leadership-ready.Not because I wasn’t capable, but because I wasn’t visible. That’s when…

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12 challenges every CEO faces in 2025

(And how to turn them into opportunities) 1. Talent That’s Hard to Keep↳ Top performers have more options than ever↳ Build a culture worth staying for 2. AI Without a Clear Plan↳ Teams need clarity on AI’s role and value↳ Start small, measure impact, scale smart 3. Too Many Priorities↳ Focus diluted across competing initiatives↳…

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