Extraordinary leadership requires learning skills you don’t learn in school.
The higher you go, the more you need to master what often looks like ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ถ๐ด๐ช๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ข๐จ๐ช๐ค โ
but is learnable if you have the right guide.
Here are 3 books that demystified some of the most important leadership skills for me:
๐ญ. ๐ฃ๐ผ๐น๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ โ ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐๐ข ๐ค๐ฃ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐๐๐
One of the most crucial skills I had to learn was ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ด.
If you donโt understand it, youโll be used (and sidelined) by those who do.
๐๐ฆ๐ต ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ is like an engineer’s guide to influence.
It teaches you how to:
โข Create centers of gravity in an organization
โข Trigger domino effects of support
โข Read the political landscape
โข Build genuine influence without becoming โpoliticalโ
Best of all: it gives you a simple, repeatable model for mastering ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ข๐ญ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ โ essential if you want to lead big change.
๐ฎ. ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐บ๐ฎ โ ๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ข๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฉ๐
Itโs a myth that you either โhaveโ charisma or you donโt.
Charisma is a learnable skill โ a combination of:
๐ฃ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ, and ๐ช๐ฎ๐ฟ๐บ๐๐ต
Charisma is one of the highest forms of leadership power.
An insight that served me well early at Microsoft:
๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ฟ๐๐บ๐ฝ๐ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ฟ๐๐บ๐ฝ๐ ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐ถ๐ฐ.
(From another favorite: ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐๐ณ๐จ๐ถ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ.)
Leaders who build charisma lead movements, not just meetings.
๐ฏ. ๐๐
๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ โ ๐๐ญ๐๐๐ช๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐น๐๐ถ๐ฎ ๐๐ป๐ป ๐๐ฒ๐๐น๐ฒ๐๐
Executive Presence once felt like the most elusive skill of all.
But with a ๐๐ณ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ต๐ฉ ๐๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด๐ฆ๐ต, you can learn anything โ
if you find the right source.
Sylvia was a rebel with a cause โ but realized that without Executive Presence, sheโd hit a ceiling in both life and leadership.
She decoded it into 3 practical pillars:
๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐, ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐บ๐๐ป๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ธ๐ถ๐น๐น๐, and ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ
This book helped me see that Executive Presence isnโt a mysterious โ๐ถ๐ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ผ๐ฟโ โ
itโs a skill set you can build intentionally.
๐๐ผ๐๐๐ผ๐บ ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ: If you want to lead at the highest levels โ
learn ๐ฃ๐ผ๐น๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ, ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐บ๐ฎ, and ๐๐
๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ.
These 3 books helped me.
They might just unlock your next level too.
3 Outstanding Leadership Books
