The most powerful CEOs don’t demand respect.
They earn it by serving others first.
Stop trying to control your team.
Start investing in their success.
I spent years believing leadership meant:
• Having all the answers
• Making all the decisions
• Being the smartest in the room
I was dead wrong.
Real leadership power comes from flipping the pyramid.
OLD WAY (Top-Down Control):
❌ Prioritizes power
❌ Demands obedience
❌ Values profit over people
NEW WAY (Servant Leadership):
✅ Builds trust and ownership
✅ Puts people’s growth first
✅ Empowers the team
Here’s how to make the shift:
𝟭. 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗗𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆
→ Connect with their challenges
→ Understand what drives them
→ Show you genuinely care
𝟮. 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗟𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝗜𝘁
→ Put down your phone
→ Ask “What else?”
→ Listen to understand, not respond
𝟯. 𝗥𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗴𝗻𝗶𝘇𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵𝘀
→ Catch people doing things right
→ Call out their unique talents
→ Help them see their own potential
𝟰. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴-𝗧𝗲𝗿𝗺
→ Anticipate future obstacles
→ Guide, don’t dictate
→ Plant seeds for tomorrow’s success
𝟱. 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆
→ Do what you say
→ Admit your mistakes
→ Choose the hard right over the easy wrong
𝟲. 𝗨𝗻𝗹𝗼𝗰𝗸 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵
→ Teach them your job
→ Give stretch assignments
→ Celebrate when they surpass you
𝟳. 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆
→ Create psychological safety
→ Encourage collaboration
→ Make the team stronger than any individual
What happens when you lead this way?
• Engagement skyrockets
• Innovation explodes
• Turnover plummets
• Culture transforms
• Performance soars
This isn’t soft leadership.
This is smart leadership.
Ready to try it?
Tomorrow, walk into work and ask yourself:
“How can I serve my team today?”
Then watch what happens.
The best leaders aren’t at the top of the pyramid.
They’re at the bottom, lifting everyone else up.
Servant Leadership
