I watched a director spiral last year.
Call him “Marcus.”
Three people on his team underperforming.
Missing deadlines. Withdrawn in meetings.
Quality slipping.
His first instinct?
Performance improvement plans.
More check-ins.
“Accountability conversations.”
He was trying to fix the flowers.
But when we looked closer:
Competing priorities from above.
No clarity on what actually mattered.
Meetings that could’ve been emails.
And a culture where asking for help
meant you weren’t “leadership material.”
The soil was toxic.
Marcus thought he had a people problem.
He had an environment problem.
When someone’s struggling,
look past the person for a moment.
What’s the system doing to them?
What’s unclear, unfair, or unsustainable?
What are you tolerating that’s poisoning
the conditions they need to grow?
Sometimes the strongest thing a leader does
isn’t pushing people harder.
It’s fixing what’s breaking them.
Good people don’t fail in good systems.
