Ask

I used to be a shy!

And I missed out on so many opportunities:

↳ Invitations I didn’t accept.
↳ Networking events I avoided.
↳ Roles I didn’t think I deserved.

But then, a wise boss noticed my shyness
and gave me one piece of advice that changed everything:

“If you don’t ask, the answer is always NO”

Here’s why asking matters:

1) It opens doors you didn’t know were there.

Waiting for someone to notice your potential? You might wait forever. Asking creates chances that wouldn’t appear otherwise.

2) It builds confidence, not just skills.

Putting yourself out there—even at the risk of rejection—builds inner strength. The more you ask, the easier it gets.

3. It turns “what if” into “what’s next”.

Asking brings clarity. Whether it’s a yes or no, every answer moves you forward.

4. It makes you seen and heard.

Leaders and peers notice those who ask. It shows you’re invested, committed, and ready to grow.

So, the next time you hesitate to ask for something —
a raise, an opportunity, or even advice…

Remember this:

Silence guarantees a “no”.
And you’re just one “yes” away from your next big step.

So go ahead, ask.