This quote says a lot. We all want to shine, but somewhere along the way we forget that the real magic happens when we shine together. Our workplaces, communities, and even friendships get stronger when we’re rooting for each other, not competing.
We’re taught from a young age to compete — for grades, jobs, recognition, likes. It’s easy to slip into a mindset of “I need to win.” But trying to outshine someone else rarely feels like a win. It’s draining. And it doesn’t create the kind of life we actually want.
Imagine what would happen if we flipped that script. What if instead of asking, “How do I stand out?” we asked, “How can I help someone else rise?” That tiny change — from ego to empathy — makes all the difference. It builds trust, connection, and a culture where everyone feels like they belong.
Think about the night sky. One star is nice. But a sky full of stars is breathtaking. When we cheer for each other, celebrate someone’s win, or share our knowledge freely, we’re adding light to that sky. We’re creating constellations, not just single points of light.
And it doesn’t take much. A public compliment. Sharing your know-how. Giving credit instead of hoarding it. Reframing envy into inspiration. Little actions like these make a huge difference.
The truth is, we don’t lose anything by lifting someone else up — we gain. The world becomes brighter. Our work feels richer. Our relationships deepen. The sky needs more stars, and we each have the power to add to it.
Kenrick Vaz 