One of life’s undeniable truths is that no matter what you do, people will have something to say. You can be doing your best, reaching milestones, or just trying to live authentically—and still, someone will judge, question, or doubt you. It’s part of being human and part of living in a world where people see things from their own perspectives.
Imagine an artist pouring their heart and soul into a painting. For some, it’s a masterpiece; for others, it’s “not their style.” Similarly, think of a person who takes a bold career step or chooses a unique path in life. While some may be inspired, others may criticize or doubt their motives. This isn’t a reflection of the person in the spotlight but of those watching from the sidelines.
It’s essential to remember that judgment from others often has more to do with them than with you. People may criticize out of envy, misunderstanding, or simply from their own insecurities. Their doubts and judgments don’t define you—your actions, integrity, and courage do.
So, when doubts and judgments arise, keep your focus on what matters to you. Let your path reflect your values, goals, and passion. When you’re true to yourself, you’ll attract people who understand, appreciate, and respect you. And for those who talk? Let them. Living authentically is the best response you can give.
Kenrick Vaz 