We often believe that to inspire others, we must first become polished, perfect, and problem-free — like a success story already written, neatly edited, and ready for publishing.
But that’s a myth.
In fact, the opposite is true.
“You don’t need to be perfect to inspire others. Let them be inspired by your imperfection and how you handle it.”
This idea hits deep — because we’re all living a version of “in-progress.” Behind every LinkedIn headline or Instagram post is a person figuring it out as they go. And that’s where the real magic lies.
The Lie of Perfection
Perfection is paralyzing.
It tells us to wait until the timing is right, the voice is confident, the story is complete. But life doesn’t work that way. And neither does impact.
When you share your story — with its dents, doubts, and detours — you give people permission to be real.
- The junior developer struggling with imposter syndrome sees you navigating a tough sprint with honesty.
- The new parent trying to balance work and life sees your messy calendar and your willingness to laugh through it.
- The young student sees you fail forward, regroup, and try again.
That’s not weakness. That’s leadership in its rawest, most human form.
Inspiration Doesn’t Come from Control — It Comes from Courage
People don’t need your perfection.
They need your courage to show up anyway.
To say:
- “I don’t have all the answers, but I’m learning.”
- “This didn’t go as planned — here’s what I’m doing differently.”
- “I messed up. And I’m owning it.”
It’s those moments that build bridges. That build trust. That inspire someone to take one more step — not because they’re sure, but because they saw you do it unsure.
Your Imperfections Are Your Power
Think of the people who’ve inspired you the most — the ones who stayed with you long after their words faded.
Chances are, they weren’t perfect.
They were real.
They were vulnerable.
They were authentic enough to admit the struggle, and resilient enough to keep moving through it.
That’s who we remember.
That’s who we follow.
So, What Now?
Here’s a simple challenge:
Share one story this week that isn’t fully polished. Something you’re figuring out. Something that felt hard but taught you something.
You don’t need to teach a lesson. Just tell the truth.
And maybe — just maybe — someone else will read it and whisper:
“If they can try, maybe I can too.”
Kenrick Vaz 