Life has a funny way of showing us who we are. Every interaction, every word exchanged, every reaction—it’s like standing in front of a two-way mirror. On one side, you see how others treat you. That’s their reflection, shaped by their experiences, values, and choices. On the other side, you see how you respond—and that’s all you.
We often forget this simple truth: what others do is about them, but what we do in return is about us. If someone speaks harshly, that speaks volumes about their state of mind, not your worth. If someone shows kindness, it tells you something about their heart, not your obligation.
The real question is—when the world sends you its reflection, what image do you send back? Anger for anger? Hurt for hurt? Or something better, something stronger?
Pause and look closely. Every reaction is a chance to define yourself. Not by their reflection—but by your own.
Next time you’re tempted to snap, judge, or mirror someone else’s negativity, remember: the mirror works both ways. Make sure what it reflects back is something you’re proud of.
Kenrick Vaz 