I don’t want my life to feel like a reset button I keep pressing out of exhaustion. I don’t want to move from one thing to the next, always cleaning up emotional debris. Always regrouping. Always telling myself, Okay, just get through this part first. It’s draining to realize how much of your energy goesContinue reading “I Don’t Want Recovery to Be My Personality”
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The Permission Slip You Never Asked For
Some days you wake up already tired. Not the kind of tired a good night’s sleep fixes, but the kind that sits deeper. The kind that comes from carrying too much for too long. On those days, the advice is always the same: take a break, slow down, ask less of yourself. And sure, thatContinue reading “The Permission Slip You Never Asked For”
Anchor in Your Own Truth
At some point in life, we all realize something uncomfortable and strangely freeing at the same time: people are going to have opinions about us no matter what we do. Loud ones. Quiet ones. Half-formed ones based on a single moment, a single sentence, or a version of us that no longer exists. And ifContinue reading “Anchor in Your Own Truth”
You’re Not Here to Be Liked. You’re Here to Be Real.
There’s a quiet pressure most of us carry, often without realizing it. The pressure to soften our opinions. To dilute our personality. To round off our edges so we’re easier to accept, easier to like, easier to keep around. It shows up in meetings when you don’t say what you really think. In friendships whereContinue reading “You’re Not Here to Be Liked. You’re Here to Be Real.”
Stop Watering What Won’t Grow
There’s a moment we all hit where something in us just gets tired. Not tired in a dramatic way. Not angry. Not bitter. Just… done. Done sending the first text. Done checking in. Done over-explaining. Done making excuses for silence. Done pretending effort is optional for some people but mandatory for us. And honestly, that’sContinue reading “Stop Watering What Won’t Grow”
The Rarest Thing We Carry
We live in a world where everything looks polished, filtered, edited, and staged. It’s almost funny how often I come across perfectly curated moments online—sunsets that look like they were painted by AI, “candid” smiles that were obviously rehearsed, quotes that sound deep but mean nothing when you really sit with them. You don’t evenContinue reading “The Rarest Thing We Carry”
The Importance of Being in the Right Place
Sometimes life tricks you into thinking your effort is the problem. You push harder, stay longer, stretch yourself thinner than you should, and yet the results never look like what you hoped for. You start wondering if you’re the weak link, if you’re not talented enough, not smart enough, not disciplined enough. But what ifContinue reading “The Importance of Being in the Right Place”
The Unwavering Virtue of Respect
Respect, often considered the cornerstone of civilized societies, is a virtue that transcends individual merit. While it’s natural to show respect to those who earn it through their actions and character, the true test of this virtue lies in our ability to extend it even to those who may not seem deserving. Respecting someone whoContinue reading “The Unwavering Virtue of Respect”
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