I used to soften everything I said. Just to sound nice, not too much, not too assertive. Turns out, it just made me sound unsure. These 12 tiny phrase shifts can change everything ✨ (Hint: Write out your 3 favorite – use them often) 1) “I’ll deliver this by Thursday at 3pm” ❌ “I’ll tryContinue reading “12 simple phrases for instant respect”
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More Than Enough: A Reminder You Didn’t Know You Needed Today
We carry so much more than we show. The quiet fears. The weight of the past. The sting of mistakes. The scars from things that hurt us more than we ever admitted out loud. And sometimes, in the middle of the noise, the pressure, and the self-doubt… we forget. We forget who we are. WeContinue reading “More Than Enough: A Reminder You Didn’t Know You Needed Today”
Why Your Next Move Beats Your Last Mistake
Mistakes happen. Some small, some seismic. But here’s the truth no one says enough: your next move matters more than your last mistake. It’s easy to get stuck in the loop of regret—replaying what went wrong, what could’ve been, or what you should have done. But growth doesn’t live there. Growth lives in the nextContinue reading “Why Your Next Move Beats Your Last Mistake”
12 public speaking secrets
Crush your next speech or presentation: 1. Hook Not Bio↳No polite warm-up, bio, or “I’m excited to be here”↳Replace with a relevant question, bold claim, or short story 2. Start Still↳Walk out, plant your feet, pause for two seconds, then speak↳Let the room settle before you begin 3. Group in Threes↳Break points into 3s –Continue reading “12 public speaking secrets”
Persuasion isn’t about manipulation.
It’s about influence. YOUR influence. Some people have a way of making you say “YES” before you even realize it. What’s their secret? Persuasion is a skill, not a gift. And the best persuaders follow habits that make them impossible to ignore. Here are 7 habits you can start using today: 🔹 1. They LeadContinue reading “Persuasion isn’t about manipulation.”
The Power of Gentle Giants
In a world that often glorifies aggression, hustle, and dominance, gentleness is underrated—misunderstood even. We’re taught to speak louder, push harder, and stand firmer to be taken seriously. But the strongest people aren’t always the loudest. They’re often the ones who carry immense power—yet never use it to wound. Gentleness doesn’t mean you’re not strong.Continue reading “The Power of Gentle Giants”
Stay Calm, Stay Strong
Losing your cool? Then you’re losing your power: Staying calm isn’t passive. It’s a leadership move. In tough moments, calm becomes yourgreatest competitive advantage. When emotions run high—the calmest voice carries the most weight. It doesn’t mean you agree. It means you choose peace over proving a point. You don’t have to match their energy.Continue reading “Stay Calm, Stay Strong”
Want to be a better communicator?
Start with these 8 micro-habits ⬇️ Communication isn’t just about talking; it’s about being understood. Here are 8 micro-habits that can instantly improve the way you communicate: 1. Listen More Than You Speak Follow the 80/20 rule: listen 80%, speak 20%. Summarise what the other person said to show understanding. Research: Active listening improves workplaceContinue reading “Want to be a better communicator? “
Why People Quit
It took me 5 years to realize… When an employee quits, the reason lies within the company culture. Not the job position. People don’t quit jobs.They actually quit because of: 1. Toxic feedback that is harsh and unhelpful.2. Toxic workload that prevents breaks or vacations.3. Toxic career growth that favors certain individuals.4. Toxic boss whoContinue reading “Why People Quit”
12 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Understand
I used to think emotional intelligence was about being nice. (I was wrong.) It’s about being real. And calm under pressure. And brave enough to hold two things at once. You can feel angry and still control your response. You can show empathy and keep healthy boundaries. You can name your feelings and still beContinue reading “12 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Understand”
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