The Score Isn’t the Story

I love this reminder because it clears up something we all mix up at some point: losing and failing are not the same thing. They can look similar from the outside, sure. Both can come with disappointment. Both can sting. Both can make you question yourself for a minute. But deep down, they’re completely differentContinue reading “The Score Isn’t the Story”

Still a Student

Somewhere along the way, many of us quietly stop being students. Not because we’ve learned everything—but because we start protecting the image of knowing. We avoid questions that might make us look unprepared. We hesitate to try new things in front of others. We trade curiosity for competence, and without realizing it, growth slows toContinue reading “Still a Student”

Mistakes do not define you, they refine you

Mistakes do not define you, they refine you. It’s easy to lose focus on the big picture, on your future when your day to day life consumes all your time and energy. There is no doubt that living in the present is important. However we tend to look at the past and dwell on eitherContinue reading “Mistakes do not define you, they refine you”