When the Page Turns: The Beauty of Starting Over

There’s a quiet kind of bravery in wiping the slate clean. It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t demand applause. But it’s there — in the moment you decide to walk away from what no longer serves you and take the first step toward something new. “Don’t be afraid to start over. You might like your newContinue reading “When the Page Turns: The Beauty of Starting Over”

Mistakes

Admitting a mistake isn’t weakness. It’s leadership in action. But most people avoid it. Not because they’re dishonest,but because they’re afraid of shame. Here’s what I’ve learned:You can own a mistakewithout owning self-blame. Here’s how to do it with strength and clarity:❶ Name it without a storyDon’t over-explain or deflect.Just say: “I got this wrong.”Continue reading “Mistakes”

The Hidden Cost of Being Right

We live in a world that rewards sharp minds, quick rebuttals, and the ability to win an argument. From boardrooms to family dinners, there’s often an invisible scoreboard keeping track of who had the last word, who proved their point, who “won.” But here’s the paradox: you can win the argument and still lose whatContinue reading “The Hidden Cost of Being Right”

Leadership’s True Legacy: Leaders Who Multiply Leaders

There’s a simple truth in leadership that is often overlooked: you are not a leader until you have produced another leader who can, in turn, produce another leader. It’s easy to mistake leadership for titles, authority, or even influence. You can hold a corner office, lead a project, or inspire a crowd—but if your leadershipContinue reading “Leadership’s True Legacy: Leaders Who Multiply Leaders”

Traps for Managers

Teams don’t quit jobs— They quit managers who: Fall into traps no one warned them about. New managers, you will face these 7 traps: 🔻 Taking credit for the team’s work 🔻 Not setting clear expectations 🔻 Avoiding tough conversations 🔻 Making decisions too slowly 🔻 Failing to delegate 🔻 Ignoring feedback 🔻 Micromanaging EachContinue reading “Traps for Managers”

How To Deal With Stress At Work

How to deal with stress at work? Today, Harris asks: — “How can I stop stressing about everything that’s happening at work?” — Welcome to Episode 180 of AskMatty! Here’s my answer, Harris: — Ready with pen and paper? Let’s dive in! 1. So, grab pen and paper. Draw a line down the middle toContinue reading “How To Deal With Stress At Work”

12 Habits That Make Everyone Want To Work With You

Want to be everyone’s favorite teammate? It’s simple. (But not easy): Just do the obvious things right. Here are 12 small habits that make a huge difference: 1/ You respond quickly ↳ Set a “24-hour response” rule for all messages 2/ You write clearly ↳ Start every long email with a one-line summary 3/ YouContinue reading “12 Habits That Make Everyone Want To Work With You”

How To Make Fast And Accurate Decisions

Fighter pilots use this to stay alive. Leaders use it to stay ahead ⬇️ Fast decisions don’t have to be reckless.They just need structure. Enter: the OODA Loop It’s a 4-step framework used by fighter pilots…and smart leaders! Here’s how it works: Observe↳ Gather key info. Scan for patterns. Spot what others miss. Orient↳ AssessContinue reading “How To Make Fast And Accurate Decisions”

Washed in the Word: A Cleansing We All Need

There’s something deeply refreshing about a shower at the end of a long day. The dirt, sweat, and weariness wash away, and you feel renewed. But just as our bodies need cleansing, so do our hearts and minds. That’s what Paul is pointing to in Ephesians 5:26 when he says Christ cleanses His people “byContinue reading “Washed in the Word: A Cleansing We All Need”

Accountability Ladder

Great leaders don’t make excuses. They make things happen. They don’t look for someone to blame. They look for solutions and stay accountable. As Bruce Gordon said: Things either happen to you or they happen because of you. So, where do you stand? Accountable leaders climb the ladder: 1️⃣ Make it happen: “I’ve got this,Continue reading “Accountability Ladder”