There’s a quiet pressure most of us carry, often without realizing it. The pressure to soften our opinions. To dilute our personality. To round off our edges so we’re easier to accept, easier to like, easier to keep around. It shows up in meetings when you don’t say what you really think. In friendships whereContinue reading “You’re Not Here to Be Liked. You’re Here to Be Real.”
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The Score Isn’t the Story
I love this reminder because it clears up something we all mix up at some point: losing and failing are not the same thing. They can look similar from the outside, sure. Both can come with disappointment. Both can sting. Both can make you question yourself for a minute. But deep down, they’re completely differentContinue reading “The Score Isn’t the Story”
Life Isn’t Either/Or. It’s BOTH!
There’s a quiet relief that comes when you finally stop trying to categorize life into neat little boxes. Good or bad. Happy or sad. Strong or struggling. We spend so much time asking ourselves which one it is, as if life owes us a single, clean answer. But it rarely does. Most days don’t arriveContinue reading “Life Isn’t Either/Or. It’s BOTH!”
Still Early. Still Becoming. Still Yours.
There’s a quiet kind of power in realizing that the voice in your head is not always telling the truth. Especially the one that whispers limits. The one that says you’re late, behind, not ready, not capable enough. That voice sounds convincing because it’s familiar, not because it’s right. You are more than you thinkContinue reading “Still Early. Still Becoming. Still Yours.”
Noise From the Cheap Seats
There’s a quote that floats around a lot: You’ll never be criticized by someone who is doing more than you. You’ll always be criticized by someone doing less. I’ve seen it attributed to famous names, but honestly, I don’t know if any of them actually said it. What I do know is this—whether the quoteContinue reading “Noise From the Cheap Seats”
Yesterday Taught Me. Tomorrow Calls Me Forward.
There’s something quietly powerful about standing between what has been and what is still becoming. Yesterday sits behind us like a patient teacher. Tomorrow waits ahead like an open door. And right here—right now—we get to choose how we carry both. 2025 taught me more than I expected. Not in loud, dramatic ways, but inContinue reading “Yesterday Taught Me. Tomorrow Calls Me Forward.”
A Quiet Dream Is Still a Dream
We’ve been taught, loudly and repeatedly, that a good life starts with a big dream. The kind you can pitch in an elevator. The kind that looks impressive on a stage or fits neatly into a LinkedIn headline. Build something massive. Become someone unforgettable. Leave a mark so large it can’t be ignored. And whenContinue reading “A Quiet Dream Is Still a Dream”
Let Me Sit With You for a Minute
There are moments when the world seems determined to move you along. To speed you up. To push you toward a solution before you’ve even had time to feel what you’re feeling. You say something is hard, and almost immediately someone reaches for advice. A tip. A lesson. A bright side. As if discomfort isContinue reading “Let Me Sit With You for a Minute”
Still Worth Waking Up For
Some days feel heavy before they even begin. You wake up already tired, already bracing yourself for whatever the day might throw your way. It’s not always one big thing either. Sometimes it’s a collection of small, quiet weights—unfinished conversations, lingering worries, plans that didn’t work out, or just the sense that you’ve been carryingContinue reading “Still Worth Waking Up For”
THE ONLY OPINION THAT BUILDS YOU
There’s a point in life when you realise the world has a lot to say about you—some of it good, some of it unnecessary, and some of it completely made up. People observe, assume, judge, measure, compare, and conclude… all without actually knowing the chapters you’ve lived. And for the longest time, you might carryContinue reading “THE ONLY OPINION THAT BUILDS YOU”
Kenrick Vaz 