There’s a point in life when you realise the world has a lot to say about you—some of it good, some of it unnecessary, and some of it completely made up. People observe, assume, judge, measure, compare, and conclude… all without actually knowing the chapters you’ve lived. And for the longest time, you might carryContinue reading “THE ONLY OPINION THAT BUILDS YOU”
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When You Stop Wrestling the Weather
Life has a funny way of reminding us that we’re not in charge of as much as we think. We like to believe we can out-muscle circumstances, out-plan uncertainty, or out-worry the things that bother us. But the truth is simpler and far less dramatic: some things won’t move no matter how hard we push.Continue reading “When You Stop Wrestling the Weather”
Don’t Hang It in Your Gallery
You can’t stop people from painting their version of you. Some will sketch from memory, others from imagination, and a few will draw from rumor. Everyone, it seems, has a canvas with your name on it. They’ll paint you in colors that match their mood, not your truth — and when they’re done, they’ll holdContinue reading “Don’t Hang It in Your Gallery”
The Healed Version Isn’t for Everyone
Healing changes you. It softens the edges that once cut too deep and strengthens the parts of you that used to break too easily. But the truth is, not everyone deserves to meet this new version of you—especially the ones who helped create the pain you had to heal from. When you begin to heal,Continue reading “The Healed Version Isn’t for Everyone”
Honoring Without Holding On
There’s a quiet power in remembering without clinging. The image of leaves falling, drifting, and being carried away by the wind mirrors our own lives. We all lose things — people, moments, identities, dreams — pieces of ourselves we once thought were permanent. And yet, just as trees let go of their leaves every autumn,Continue reading “Honoring Without Holding On”
The Company You Keep: Designing a Life That Lifts You Up
Ever walked into a room and felt instantly lighter—or heavier—without knowing why? That’s the silent power of your surroundings. The people you talk to. The work you do. The space you live in. The energy you absorb. They all act like background music for your life—subtle, but profoundly influential. And just like the wrong playlistContinue reading “The Company You Keep: Designing a Life That Lifts You Up”
Seen, Not Sold: Your Worth Isn’t a Sales Pitch
There’s a quiet power in knowing your worth and not wasting energy trying to prove it. In a world obsessed with validation—likes, applause, promotions, and praise—we often fall into the trap of overexplaining ourselves, bending over backward to prove that we belong, that we’re capable, that we matter. But Emily Maroutian puts it plainly: “Don’tContinue reading “Seen, Not Sold: Your Worth Isn’t a Sales Pitch”
The Quiet Glow
We often mistake confidence for volume. The booming voice in a meeting. The bold outfit. The person who always has something to say. And while those might look like confidence, the truth is — real confidence rarely shouts. It hums. It doesn’t need to prove itself, because it knows who it is. Confidence is thatContinue reading “The Quiet Glow”
Mind Real Estate: Choose Your Tenants Wisely
Your mind is like valuable real estate, and the thoughts and people you allow to occupy it can greatly impact your well-being and happiness. The quote “Don’t let anyone rent a space in your head unless they are a good tenant” serves as a powerful reminder to be mindful of who and what you giveContinue reading “Mind Real Estate: Choose Your Tenants Wisely”
Don’t Take Criticism from People You’d Never Go to for Advice
In the journey of personal and professional growth, criticism is inevitable. It’s an integral part of improvement, offering perspectives we might not have considered. However, not all criticism is created equal. The source of the critique is just as important as the content of the critique. A fundamental rule to live by is: Don’t takeContinue reading “Don’t Take Criticism from People You’d Never Go to for Advice”
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