There’s this unspoken fear many of us carry in the workplace: the worry that if someone is smarter, sharper, or quicker than we are, it somehow makes us less valuable. It’s almost instinctive, this defense mechanism that kicks in when we feel like we’re not the smartest person in the room. But here’s the truthContinue reading “Smarter Than Me, Stronger Than Us”
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A Postcard From Your Future Self
There’s a version of you, ten years from now, who’s looking back at today with a kind of wistful tenderness. They’re sitting somewhere in the future—maybe at a desk, maybe on a porch, maybe in a completely different life—thinking about the person you are right now. And if they could send you a postcard, ifContinue reading “A Postcard From Your Future Self”
Waking Up to the Life You Built
There’s something powerful about the quiet moment before the day starts — when the world is still, the coffee hasn’t brewed yet, and the first light begins to seep in. It’s in that pause that you really feel the weight of the life you’ve built. Not the frantic to-do lists or the endless goals, butContinue reading “Waking Up to the Life You Built”
Kindness Without a Reason
We live in a world that constantly asks for context. Before we act, we want to know the backstory, the struggle, the “why” behind someone’s behavior. We feel more justified in extending kindness when we can attach it to a reason: they’ve had a bad day, they’re grieving, they’re stressed. But that mindset quietly conditionsContinue reading “Kindness Without a Reason”
A Sky Full of Stars
This quote says a lot. We all want to shine, but somewhere along the way we forget that the real magic happens when we shine together. Our workplaces, communities, and even friendships get stronger when we’re rooting for each other, not competing. We’re taught from a young age to compete — for grades, jobs, recognition,Continue reading “A Sky Full of Stars”
The Empty Chair Theory: How Absence Shapes Our Perception
We tend to think presence is what matters most — the words said in a meeting, the people at a party, the full seats in a hall. But often, it’s not what’s present that carries the deepest weight. It’s what’s missing. The empty chair at a dinner table. The unreturned call. The quiet in aContinue reading “The Empty Chair Theory: How Absence Shapes Our Perception”
The Longest Line
When I first saw this illustration, it stopped me in my tracks. Five simple lines, five simple words — yet it hit a nerve. To gossip. To get involved. To encourage. To help. And the people? The longest line stretched toward gossip, while the shortest barely existed for help. Something about that image made meContinue reading “The Longest Line”
Why We All Owe Each Other More Than We Think
Scroll through social media long enough and you’ll see the mantra: “You don’t owe anyone anything.” It’s packaged as self-care, empowerment, and boundaries — and sometimes it’s necessary advice. But lately, it’s been taken to an extreme. We’ve started confusing “I’m not obligated to be mistreated” with “I don’t have to show up with basicContinue reading “Why We All Owe Each Other More Than We Think”
When the Page Turns: The Beauty of Starting Over
There’s a quiet kind of bravery in wiping the slate clean. It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t demand applause. But it’s there — in the moment you decide to walk away from what no longer serves you and take the first step toward something new. “Don’t be afraid to start over. You might like your newContinue reading “When the Page Turns: The Beauty of Starting Over”
The Hidden Cost of Being Right
We live in a world that rewards sharp minds, quick rebuttals, and the ability to win an argument. From boardrooms to family dinners, there’s often an invisible scoreboard keeping track of who had the last word, who proved their point, who “won.” But here’s the paradox: you can win the argument and still lose whatContinue reading “The Hidden Cost of Being Right”
Kenrick Vaz 